A Few Words With...Whitney Wright

By John A. Wilcox



Whitney Wright has a face and a body that you just cannot ignore. Gorgeous from head to toe. So very young, as well - not yet 27. Don't let that fool you. She's already had tons of experience in the adult industry. Wright is a genuinely sweet and engaging young woman. I found her to be open, giving, and grounded. I decided to take this opportunity to focus on how she found her way into the biz. Her story is fascinating...



PS: Where were you born?

WW: I was born in Oklahoma City, Oklahoma. It was nice. It was pretty nice. I was...complacent, I guess you can say. I mean it was comfortable. When I graduated high school. I thought "What can I do? I just don't want to stay here for my whole life."

PS: How did your journey to the adult business begin?

WW: Basically I stayed with someone for 4 years. They proposed to me, and then I panicked. I said "I'm sorry." I wasn't ready to be married and I definitely didn't want to spend my entire life in Oklahoma. I was looking on sites one day and I was with my friend staying over at her house. We thought that it would be really funny to sign up on one of those Sugar Daddy / Sugar Baby websites. We were just doing it because it was fun. So I started talking to the guys on there. Never met up with any of them. It sounded like a bunch of guys that wanted to have sex on the first date. It was like "Oh, if you want an allowance I can give you $500.00 and I can see you 6 times a month!" I was like "I don't need money that bad. I had a pretty good job already.

PS: Sounds like 99% of guys online!

WW: There was this guy that I decided to meet. We were talking for about a week. Then he was "How about you meet me at Dave & Buster's? Then we can have a regular date and see how we connect." I was like "OK, great!" I drove an hour to go meet this guy, which was a big deal to me because I had no idea how it would go. I texted him that I was there, and then I called him. He never answered the text. He totally blew me off.



After that I was going to go back home, but there was this other guy that I'd been exchanging messages with. We were going to go out on a date later in the week. Since I'd basically been canceled on that night, I was like "Hey, I just wrapped something up. Are you doing anything? You want to go on that date maybe now?" He was like "Yes!" so I went out on a date with that guy. He was 35. He was pretty much like the ultimate Christian Grey - And I'd never even read the book or seen the movies - but that was basically the gist of what was going on. He was really into S&M. He had his own private jet, which he flew. Our relationship eventually progressed to dates in Oklahoma City to...he would pick me up at my hometown airport in his plane and then we would fly to Dallas. We would have dinner there, then we would fly back. it was great. He was really sexually adventurous and he helped me get out of my shell.

PS: Was this all new to you?

WW: Before I started dating him I'd never been to a strip club. I'd never had a threesome. Why would I? I went to a private school from Kindergarten. I wasn't a prude - I'd had a few partners in college. Serious boyfriends. But I was nowhere near the wild end, let's say. Once we started seeing each other he turned me on to all of that. We went to strip clubs and I got my first lap dance. He would tell me "That was so hot! You looked so good!" I was really shy and not self confident at that time. I would say "No, no, I don't look good. I need to lose weight." or "I need to do this, and this, and this." Then he would say "No, you don't. You're gorgeous. You have these eyes and this hair. I love this and this about you!" He wasn't saying it in a matter-of-factly type of way. He basically helped me grow that confidence. Loving myself. Loving my sexuality.

PS: Did you have a history of feeling unconfident?

WW: I would get dressed up and I would wear tight dresses. It was harder for me to take a compliment. We talked for about a year. It was crazy. I did things with him I had never done before. It all started out with him saying "What have you never done before that you would love to do?" My first thing that I told him was "A threesome. I'd like to do that." He said "OK" He knew this girl who was bi and started talking to her and made that happen. The next thing was handcuffs. Handcuffs and a flogger and stuff because I'd always wanted to try that with my ex for years, but when I brought it up one time he said "No. That's so weird. I'm not doing any of that weird shit." So I never brought it up with him again because I was like "Oh no. Guys don't like this." He was like "No. That's awesome. We're doing it!"



So we went to a sex toy store. He was like "I want you to get everything that you've ever wanted to use." I was like "Oh my gosh!" So I just went through there and picked out a bunch of things. That was just the tip of the iceberg. Fast forward a few months. We were flying to swingers clubs in Dallas. We would go to all nude swingers resorts in Cancun. Go to these wild parties and bring people back to our suite with a rooftop view of the whole resort. It was gorgeous. He would bring them up there and play around with them. It was the wildest resort experience I've ever had. I ended up going back there with him 3 more times in that year we dated just becaquse it was such a fun place.

PS: How did that situation end?

WW: He paid my bills and everything. Made sure I was well taken care of and gave me gifts. Once he started getting busier he would be like "I'm sorry, but I have to cancel tonight." It happened a bit more often, but then when I saw him, he'd try to make it up to me by buttering me up or bribing me with trips to Vegas. At that point I told him that I wanted more time with him. He was like "I'm working. I'm constantly busy. Hopefully it'll slow down a little bit - the craziness." I said "I understand." But I still needed that excitement.

One day I was talking to my friend and seeing what he was up to. He was like "I'm going to the strip club." I was like "I wanna come!" So I went with him and I got a little tipsy. We were drinking and talking to a few of the dancers. Then one of them said "You should get up there and dance!" I was like "No way! I can't." After a few more I was like "Ok, yes I can! I'll just do it once!" One of them let me borrow their shoes. I was falling all over the place. It was quite a show, but once I got off stage, the owner of the club came up to me and said "Hey, I really like your look." I noticed she said nothing about my dancing. "You want a job here?" I was like "Yeah!" So the next day I was like "So I just took this job as a stripper." But here's the thing. I told myself that I would do it for 2 weeks. Make a little bit of extra money. But then I started making more and more money. Then I became 1 of the top 3 earners in the club.



PS: How did this all transition into film?

WW: I'd been dancing for about a year. I would respond to ads about boudoir photography and just modeling and stuff. I just loved doing those kinds of photos. It would usually be for trade but I would still look around and see what I could find. As I was looking through those ads, I see this ad that says "Come out to Los Angeles to be an adult film star." I was really intrigued, so I looked at the ad. I checked out the agent website, which looked legit. I gave them a call and asked how it worked. They told me the process. Before I knew it I was out there doing my first scene.

PS: Who was it for?

WW: It was for FTV Girls. It was a few solos. And it was a few boy / girls. It was really exciting. I wasn't scared or nervous.

PS: Why do you think that is?

WW: Because by that point I had been through 6 person orgies. I had threesomes. I had gone down on a Playboy playmate that was vacationing there with her husband in a hot tub. I had basically done it all and seen it all. So I didn't feel like anything could phase me. To me, once I had a taste of something, I always wanted more. I was always wondering "OK, well what's the next level? What's the next big thing that I could do?" It wasn't so much a checklist, but it almost became like a search for the next thing that involved sex and exhibitionism and everything else. Because especially when we went to those resorts and those clubs I loved being watched, whatever I was doing. When I was on stage I loved being watched. I loved putting on a performance. Wearing these strappy bodysuits that would show my entire breasts. I would put nipple pasties on. I would just do this whole show. I loved attention and the performing. So I was totally ready to do this. I was excited. When the sex came I was totally into it. I loved it. It was great. From that point I did a few more scenes. Then I went back to Oklahoma. After that I flew back to L.A. for 2 more weeks. I quit my pharmacy job at this point. I was going back so much that I thought "I'm losing money by not living out in L.A." So I got pretty much everything that I thought I needed and just moved to L.A. I stayed in the model house for about a year until I got my own place with a roommate. I was talking to the makeup artist yesterday. I told her that in September it will be 2 years. It feels like such a blur! I've loved it so far.



PS: What were you working on when you talked to the makeup artist?

WW: Yesterday I was on set for Girlsway. I've been doing a lot of girl / girl scenes this month. I took a little 4 day vacation. Other than that I have 20 scenes this month. I'm with Mark Spiegler. He's the best agent in porn. He's the best agent you can possibly hope to have. He only takes girls who are serious. Who always show up on time. You can't be late. You can't do drugs. You've got to be on your shit. He only has a certain number of spots. Either 25 or 30 spots on the website. He only takes that many girls at a time. He's been doing this for over 20 years.

PS: It sounds like you're taking all the right steps.

WW: I take a mainstream acting class that I go to once a week. Twice when I can. My teacher says "Remember - practice. Stay on top of it. You have to love it, and you actually have to want it because there is always someone who is just as good looking as you, if not better. Just as talented as you, if not better - who is sleeping in their car right now. They want it. And they want to get out of that situation. They're going to bust their ass. And if you don't bust yours then you lose it."



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